sexy....

Talk to Wisdom as to a sister. Treat Insight as your companion.They'll be with you to fend off the Temptress—that smooth-talking, honey-tongued Seductress. As I stood at the window of my house looking out through the shutters,Watching the mindless crowd stroll by, I spotted a young man without any senseArriving at the corner of the street where she lived, then turning up the path to her house.It was dusk, the evening coming on, the darkness thickening into night.Just then, a woman met him—she'd been lying in wait for him, dressed to seduce him.Brazen and brash she was, restless and roaming, never at home,Walking the streets, loitering in the mall, hanging out at every corner in town. She threw her arms around him and kissed him, boldly took his arm and said,"I've got all the makings for a feast—today I made my offerings, my vows are all paid,So now I've come to find you, hoping to catch sight of your face—and here you are!Soon she has him eating out of her hand, bewitched by her honeyed speech.Before you know it, he's trotting behind her, like a calf led to the butcher shop,Like a stag lured into ambush and then shot with an arrow,Like a bird flying into a net not knowing that its flying life is over. So, friends, listen to me, take these words of mine most seriously.Don't fool around with a woman like that; don't even stroll through her neighborhood.Countless victims come under her spell; she's the death of many a poor man.She runs a halfway house to hell, fits you out with a shroud and a coffin.

all of that is exerts from Proverbs 7...
and again God takes the bat and smacks me on the side of the head...
what is it that we think we are attracting when we dress in a sexy (seductive, provocative) manner? I think that because I tend to look sexy instead of sleazy it is okay... and it's not... and I don't even usually show any body parts that should be hidden... it is just the style of the dress or the fit of the dress... in my human mind I say that I accentuate the attributes that I have... in the spirit mind... God says why? what are you trying to accomplish... attention... that is what I am looking for... again... sometimes I am such an ugly person...
2 in a row... cleanse me Father of wrong thoughts... wrong desires... change me... wash me in the blood of the sacrifice that Christ made for me... teach me to live in freedom from all the world's desires and bondage... forgive me and help me to turn from all wrong doing... continue to point out to me anything that is not pleasing to You... help me to put You and what you want for me and from me in front of anything that I should not be... in the name of Jesus I ask it... amen...