so I am driving to work... and I realize... the enemy has used women to destroy the family... now we don't see it like this.. and we don't want to hear that.. but it is true.. it started long ago with the whole women's rights movement.. not that I don't believe women should have rights.. I do.. but when we fought for that.. we got to believing that we are 'equal.. meaning the same as' a man.. and that is not biblical... so because we are equal.. we decided we don't need a man.. and we divorced them.. we all know men 90% of the time will not leave a marriage.. the women leave them.. tired of whatever they are putting up with... 

now don't imagine that I feel this means we should have to deal with a bunch of mess all the time.. but I think when we marry the wrong man.. that is just the result... I think at that point.. when abuse is not involved.. then we need to decide to work through more things than what we are willing to work through.. and in this I believe we as women will be changed to be more loving... more caring... less selfish.. which is really what I believe God created a woman to be... 

I believe in God's eyes it is the woman that holds the family together.. while the man is supposed to be the head.. he cannot be who he needs to be without a strong woman supporting him.. men tend to be very insecure even when they aren't someone who shows insecurity.. so he may be the head.. but she is the backbone of the family and of the marriage.. 

so I really believe that through women's rights.. we have destroyed the family... we want equal rights when it is convenient... we have given up being stay at home mothers.. we have given up having our doors opened.. we have given up having a man pay for our dinner.. we have done all these things under the illusion of women's rights... 

me personally.. I would go back to the time when a woman's job would only consist of being a secretary in order to be protected and loved by a man.. which was God's plan I believe.. men abused the power.. and we abused the rights... now everyone is separate... and again.. the woman has given the fruit of the enemy to the man...