this really about nothing... with no answer in sight... just something that REALLY annoys me...
have you ever known a woman that will only talk on the phone when her man is not around?? boy does that annoy me... now... I realize that men tend to get irritated when they are not the center of your existance... they think you need to hang up as long as they are in your presence... but still... do you really have to go along with it? why can't you answer the phone... talk a few minutes... (like under 3 even..) then say okay... well I'm with the man right now and will call you later... but you don't even answer the phone... I promise you that I will not remember whatever I was suppposed to say to you when you call me later...
and men... what is the issue... I mean... I can understand that she shouldn't be on the phone gossiping while you have a little personal time with her... and if ya'll are 'busy'... of course you wouldn't answer just then... but to think that every time she is in your presence she just won't answer the phone at all... that would tend to make me think something is going on... if I am with a man and his phone is off or on silent and he won't pick up ANY calls... there is something he is hiding...
my personal opinion is this... answer the phone... talk a few minutes and hang up... both sexes... truthfully... any time we are on the phone more than 10 minutes, it turns into gossip anyways so we really should not be hanging on the phone all like we do... and I don't know about you... but I sometimes make excuses for my gossip... such as... it was the truth... it may have been... but I am learning the hard way that if what you are saying does not encourage, edify and bring life... we don't need to say it... maybe if we don't say it.. we will eventually get to the place where we don't think it... maybe....
whew... feel better now... really had to get that off my chest...
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