Proverbs 10: 12 Hatred stirs up quarrels, but love makes up for all offenses.

recently someone offended me.. truthfully this person has offended me repeatedly for many years now and this particular offense just was the last one I was willing to deal with... 

this morning as I was praying and asking God to fill me with his love I feel him saying to me.. what good is it for me to fill you with my love if you are going to harden your heart against people? 

I think about this and he is right.. I have hardened my heart towards this person... 

I decide this morning that I will open my heart to love.. that I will be soft hearted and caring about all other people regardless of their actions.. 

I trust that God will be the one to show this person how prideful and unpleasant they are to others.. and I don't need to worry about this.. God will deal with all offenses in his time.. I just need to trust him..