I was praying/meditating with God this morning.. and I realized.. I can now go into a relationship with a man because of God's great love for me... not because of a man's great love for me.. but because of God's... I used to use the excuse of God loving me so great.. why would I want to add a man to it and allow him to mess it up... today I realize that he wouldn't mess it up... he would be an outlet for this great love of God within me to overflow and touch the man God chooses..